Have him take you out to dinner before "dessert"
From Create Your Own Story
"Let's make it like an actual date," you tell him. "Dinner."
"It is an actual date," he chuckles.
30 minutes later, you're sitting with him at a nice Chinese restaurant. You split an order of pot stickers and some soup, then for your entree, Mongolian beef and shrimp with Chinese vegetables, over rice. You add a generous amount of soy sauce.
"This is lovely," you tell him.
He smiles. "I'm glad you approve."
He pays and takes you back to his home. 2 minutes later you're both lying naked on his bed.
