Masochist me/Sex training/Striptease

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The next class, we moved on to striptease, and taking touch beyond petting.

"Now, one way to help initiate sexual energy is a striptease. For this, I have brought in a professional."

The woman who came in was definitely professional. I felt a mixture of both attraction and jealousy. It wasn't like some strip show. She showed the various ways to strip.

"Hello everyone," she says, her voice a playful, yet husky growl. "For doing a sexy little striptease for your partner, remember that you are not a professional. Please ignore the movies, or the women at strip clubs. You need to find what works for you. First, you will need to make sure your clothes are right for the occasion. It is best that you dress in layers, but that you are comfortable. More layers makes it so you have more to take off. This makes the process take longer, and leaves more for him to imagine longer than if you take everything off in a few seconds."

She went through each item that she wore. A pair of stiletto boots, ankle socks, and black tights. A black miniskirt with a pair of white panties. A button up top with a strap top underneath, a white bra to match her panties. A hair tie holding her hair back in a pony tail.

"So, I can start with the pony tail, let my hair down, both figuratively and literally. Then, move on to the different elements, each time exposing more. Taking off my top will show more cleavage. Taking off my skirt will show the tights molding to me. Or, I could slip off the tights, and leave my legs bare. See, you can already see some of the men in class getting excited, just seeing bits of me as I show off each layer." She winked at one of the guys, and all attention went to him. Suddenly, he was the one blushing.

"So, would you like to be my helper," she asked? There was such a quality to her voice, something that entranced and seduced. Even the women were captivated by the way her voice caressed each word she said. The guy nodded, and she pulled out a chair and set it in front of her. "Okay, sit here, and we can start," she practically ordered him, although the way it came out, it was hard to tell if it was an order...or invitation.

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Slip Into Something Sexier

When selecting your outfit, dress in layers so you'll have more to peel off. And make sure you're comfortable in whatever you have on. Of course stilettos and knee-high boots are wicked foxy, and if you feel confident in them, great. But being in bare feet and one of his button-downs (you can slowly undo those buttons...) is just as alluring.

Set Your Stage

Dim the lights or toss a sheer scarf over your lamps. Arrange a chair for him to sit on where you'll also have space to strip a few feet away (you want to be back far enough that he can see all of you, and you're just out of his reach). To initiate things, either tell him, "I've got a little something for you," or simply lead him to the room and push him down on chair.

Hit Play

Pick a song that has a strong beat but isn't too fast, and makes you feel vixen-ish. A few good bets: "S&M" by Rihanna, "Dirty Laundry" by Bittersweet, and "Crazy" by Aerosmith.

Walk the Walk

Begin your show with a slow, seductive strut. After sitting him down, take your time turning around and striding away from him. Place one foot directly in front of the other, and drag your feet for a come-hither effect.

Give Yourself a Hand

Always pay attention to what you're doing with your hands: Glide your fingertips up and down the sides of your body, stroke your neck and collarbone (it's smart to focus on the sexiest parts of your body), tug a little at the hem of your shirt or nightie. Move your hands smoothly and lightly, and remember that using your fingertips looks way more seductive than "wiping" yourself with your whole palm.

Whip Your Hair

If you have long locks, play with them and flip them around whenever you have the chance. Guys go berserk for this, because flowing hair is such a feminine attribute. They'll imagine it brushing against their skin, and running their fingers through it.

Mesmer-Eyes Him

Every so often during your strip-down, catch his gaze for a few seconds. Eye contact conveys confidence, and that's what will sell the tease.

Amp the Anticipation

Play up the article of clothing that you're about to take off, so that he senses what's coming before it happens. Like, if you're going to remove your slip, slide it up and down your body first. Then once you've removed it, caress the body part you've just revealed, drawing attention to the fact that it's now nude.

Turn Your Shirt Into Handcuffs

Face your guy, bend over at the waist, and graze your hands down the front of your legs. While you're in this forward fold, start to take off your top—but instead of removing it all the way, leave it rolled at your wrists. (Note: this only works with a sleeveless or short-sleeved shirt.) Twist your right hand once, creating loose "handcuffs" around your wrists. Rise back up and lift your arms over your head. After a moment, either fling it at him or just toss it to the ground, like you're done with it.

Arch Your Back

It accentuates your fine female curves. Simple, but so, so powerful.

Roll Your Booty

Men freaking love this: Stand with your feet slightly farther apart than shoulder-width, knees bent. Throw your shoulders back, put your hands on your knees, and lean your weight into your hands. Circle your butt around 360 degrees or in a figure-eight shape. You can also do the booty roll on all fours—just remember to separate your knees.

Move Between Levels

Throughout the tease, transition between standing, getting down on your hands and knees, and then sliding onto your stomach. It's more interesting for him to watch if you switch things up, plus it lets him view your hot bod from all angles.

Get a Leg Up

Once you're on your stomach, flip onto your back, extend your arms straight out on the ground over your head (this will anchor you down), and lift your legs up in the air. Think about creating beautiful lines with your stems: point your feet, cross them at the ankle, flutter your legs, open into a straddle-style split facing him...and if you're feeling bold, look at him while you slowly caress your V-zone. To get up, roll over onto all fours, sit back on your feet (they should be flat on the floor, knees together), and then stand one leg at a time.

Unleash Your Breasts

Turn your back to him, slip off one bra strap, then the other. After a second or two, unclasp it, and pivot to face him, holding your bra against your boobs with your hands. Turn back around and let your bra fall to the floor, so you're drawing out the moment of reveal as much as possible.

Hit the Wall

Put your back against the wall, and lift your arms above your head. Slink your body up and down a few times, then push yourself away from the wall and walk slowly towards him.

Corrupt a Chair

Sit sideways on an armless chair, so that the back of it is against the left side of your body. Lower your torso down to rest on the seat, as you hold onto the back of the chair with your left hand for support. Lift your legs in the air, and do some pretty kicks. Some simpler, sexy things to do with a chair: Put one leg up on the seat, raise your heel as though you were wearing stilettos, and caress your leg. Pop your butt out every time you sit down and get up. Sit on the seat of the chair and flip that hair!

Ditch Your Undies

Stand with your feet parallel, hook your thumbs into the waistband of your panties, bend your knees, and slither your underwear down your legs like a snake. Let them drop to your ankles. Step out of one side, and then with your other leg, kick them in his direction.

Sloooow It Down

Never rush a striptease. Think of the process like creating pictures: He's going to want to remember these images of you getting naked for him, so he can visualize them later on. The slower you go, the easier it will be for him to take a mental snapshot of one of the hottest moments of his life.

Touch Him Strategically

It can be torturously sexy to not let him lay a hand on you the whole time. Or touch him at key moments to build up the tease. Occasionally, brush his arms, mess up his hair, sit on his lap for a second, or have him help you undress (for example, plant your foot on the chair in between his legs so he can unroll your thigh-high stocking). Get more affectionate as the tease progresses—by the end he literally won't be able to resist you.

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Removing your clothing one piece at a time while swaying your hips to the music in the background might sound like a recipe for roaring laughter, but it can be fun and erotic if you give it a chance and do it right.

Granted, most guys aren't Chippendales strippers, nor are they well practiced in the fine art of pelvic thrusting (at least not on dance floors), but nevertheless, you can keep this experience light and interesting. Not to mention, she may just love what she's seeing.



set the stripper tone

Now before you start throwing your clothes all over the place, you have to ensure that the setting is agreeable. Lighting is very important and I recommend using either red lights (they scream sex; remember Roxanne?), or candlelight. Make sure you have maneuverability — the last thing you want is to slam into a table and have to be rushed to emergency. You'll both laugh about it one day, but it won't be funny at the time.

As well, you should both be in a good mood. Put her in a spot where you can approach her after you're done with your fancy footwork. And above all else, don't behave like you're Fabio unless you're kidding around — the last thing you want is to have her laughing at you.

Obviously, you won't be removing your clothes for a woman you've only known two days and a night. This is an experience you want to share with a woman you've already shared laughter and good times with.



striptease

There are certain unwritten rules (that will be written shortly) you must adhere to when you decide that you want to take it off for your woman. Keep all of the following in mind when you're about to surprise her with your antics.

Don't get totally naked

Always leave something to the imagination. Don't rip off all your clothes in one violent thrust and jump her. Take your time and always leave one item on — you have to give her something to do after all. The item that should be left on is your underwear.



No leopard print thong

Chances are that most guys don't have the body of an Adonis, and even if you did, I still wouldn't recommend wearing bikini or thong underwear. Most women aren't big fans. Your best bet would be boxer briefs. She can see the bulge, but it's wrapped in an attractive package.



Costumes are acceptable

My woman loved it when we came home from a formal party one night and I began stripping away my tuxedo. Using costumes such as a fireman's garb is acceptable, but spontaneity is preferred.

Practice, laugh, and learn how to take your clothes off the right way...



Practice beforehand

Stake out the location and what you would do. That's right — come on, you stare at yourself in the mirror anyway, why not take off your clothes while you do it? Watch the way you move around, and discover how easy or difficult it would be to take off each item of clothing.



Laugh at yourself

Most men aren't famous for stripping; so don't take the moment seriously. It's okay to smile and laugh every now and then. That way, she'll feel more comfortable and of course, that'll make you feel even more comfortable in your own skin literally.



Kiss and tease her

Approach her every now and again while you're undressing and kiss her mouth and body. Get close enough to her so that she could touch you, but back away when she reaches out for you.

Bring her up to dance with you

When you're virtually naked, lift her up and hold her close to you as you strut your stuff together. This way, you can seduce her further before you take charge and get down to pleasure.



order of operation

The experience can be funny but the last thing you want to do is look funny when you're done doing your dancing deed. So don't end up wearing nothing but your sports socks.

Before you even start removing your clothes, however, keep in mind that if you know how to dance, then by all means, bust a move. But if you don't, simply sway your hips from side to side, and turn around to give her a different view every now and then.

Now here's the order in which you should remove your clothes:

1- Take off your socks.
2- Remove your tie and toss it at her.
3- Undo the cuffs of your shirt.
4- Unbutton your shirt but do not remove it yet.
5- Remove your belt and unbutton your pants.
6- Let your pants fall to the ground and step out of them.
7- Remove your shirt.
8- Move slowly toward her and let her take off your boxer briefs.



play that funky music

So what music should you be taking it all off to? That's really a matter of opinion and taste. If you are just down to have fun and laugh throughout the entire thing, then the clich strip song "You Can Leave Your Hat On" by Joe Cocker will work wonders.

But if you want to do a little dance with a twist of eroticism, then choose the music that both of you enjoy whether it be R&B or trance. The point is that you need to get into the groove and it wouldn't hurt if she also enjoyed your selection.

So until next time, have fun with your woman and show her how it's really done. Who knows, this may just encourage her to give you a little performance of her own.

Striptease

(this would be before getting in the bed)