Ask her to suck it a little.

From Create Your Own Story

"If you sucked my cock this would go a lot faster," you say.

"I'm sure it would," she says. "Not going to happen, asshole. That's why I said handjob and not blowjob."

• ask her if you can play with her tits.
• ask her if you play with her pussy a little.
• ask her to take off her clothes.